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Why is Emotional Intelligence important for children?

Writer's picture: Nivedita ChandraNivedita Chandra

Emotional intelligence is a strong predictor of life success and happiness. Children with high emotional intelligence tend to outperform their peers academically, have greater social relationships, and are more resilient in the face of adversity. Here are some of the main reasons why emotional intelligence is important:

  1. Academic Achievement: Emotional intelligence has been related to improved academic success and high self esteem. Children who are able to manage their emotions are more likely to concentrate on their academics, solve issues effectively, and collaborate with their peers.

  2. Healthy relationships: Positive connections are fostered by developing strong social skills, empathy, confidence and self esteem. Children with strong emotional intelligence can communicate effectively, overcome issues, and work well with others. They have higher self-respect.

  3. Life is full of ups and downs that require resilience. Emotionally intelligent youngsters are better equipped to deal with setbacks, recover from failures, and adjust to changes, establishing resilience for future challenges.

  4. Effective leadership is defined by the capacity to understand and influence the emotions of people. Emotional intelligence is an important aspect in developing leadership qualities at a young age.


How to Help Children Develop Emotional Intelligence:


Now that we've established the significance of emotional intelligence, let's look at some practical ways parents may help their children acquire it:


  1. Lead by Example: Children observe their parents and learn from them. In your relationships with others, demonstrate self-awareness, moderate your emotions, and model empathy.

  2. Open Communication: Encourage your children to communicate in an open and honest manner. Make a secure space for children to share their feelings and thoughts without fear of being judged.

  3. Teach Problem-Solving abilities: Assist your child in developing problem-solving abilities by discussing different problems and brainstorming solutions together. This technique helps them think critically about emotions and situations.

  4. Encourage Empathy: Encourage empathy by addressing other people's thoughts and viewpoints. Encourage your youngster to think about how their actions might affect others and to talk about methods to be kind and empathetic.

  5. Provide Self-Regulation Tools: Teach your child realistic stress-management and emotion-regulation strategies, such as deep breathing exercises or mindfulness activities.

  6. Celebrate Emotions: Emotions are a natural and necessary aspect of being human, therefore celebrate them. Celebrate a wide range of emotions with your child and teach them that all emotions are valid.



Cultivating emotional intelligence in our children is a significant investment in their future well-being and success as parents. We empower our children to manage the complexity of life with resilience and grace by cultivating self-awareness, empathy, and effective communication. Let us not forget the significant impact that knowing and controlling emotions can have on the direction of a child's life in a world that typically prioritises intelligence and achievements. Let us work together to develop emotionally intelligent individuals who will positively contribute to the world.


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